Boys Leadership Camp: A Journey of Growth, Culture and Connection
Five 5 Deadly Youth mentees — Alaray Breckenridge, Jack Allan, Jai Barnes, Gordon Ceissman and Mirrhthyi Roberts — recently took part in the Souths Cares Annual Leadership Camp at Ingenia Holiday Park, Middle Rock. Guided by the theme “Surviving and Thriving,” the camp offered a powerful opportunity for young leaders to strengthen their confidence, resilience and connection to culture, community and one another.
The camp opened with a land-based fishing workshop at Soldiers Point, where mentees learned practical skills alongside lessons in patience, teamwork and respect for the ocean. Blending traditional and contemporary knowledge, the session reinforced the importance of sustainability and caring for Country. For many, the experience went beyond fishing — it was about slowing down, observing their surroundings and working together, all essential qualities for leadership.
A standout moment of the camp was the cultural workshop and guided walk to the summit of Tomaree Mountain. Through storytelling and reflection on Country, the mentees explored the strength of Aboriginal culture, the responsibility of caring for land, and the importance of perspective. Reaching the summit symbolised perseverance and resilience, reminding the group that leadership often requires effort, reflection and the courage to keep moving forward, even when the path is challenging.
Yileen Gordon, Mentor“It was great to see the young men supporting each other through the activities, especially on the mountain walk and during the fishing. Camps like this help them build confidence, try new things and stay connected to who they are and where they come from.”
Balancing learning with fun, the group also shared a ten-pin bowling session, where laughter, friendly competition and teamwork helped build confidence and strengthen friendships. These relaxed moments created space for connection and reinforced the importance of enjoying the journey alongside the challenges.
The camp concluded with a celebratory dinner at Negroni’s Italian Restaurant in Nelson Bay. Over shared meals and conversation, the mentees reflected on their achievements, acknowledged their growth and celebrated the experiences they had shared throughout the camp.
Through cultural learning, practical skills and strong connections, Alaray, Jack, Jai, Gordon and Mirrhthyi demonstrated what it means to not only survive challenges, but truly thrive as young leaders. The Souths Cares Leadership Camp created lasting memories and lessons that will continue to guide them in their communities, education and future leadership pathways.
With the support of Ingenia Holiday Parks , Souths Cares was able to deliver the Leadership and Cultural Camp, creating a safe, culturally strong and inspiring experience that reinforced resilience, teamwork, leadership and connection to culture for these young people.
